What people in United States actually hate
17 pain points submitted from United States, sorted by urgency. 196 upvotes from people who feel the same.
What 17 people in United States actually wrote down β ranked, voted on, and unedited.
United States shows up on PainMap because 17 people living there took two minutes to write down something genuinely broken in their day. Not a survey response, not a Reddit thread someone scraped β a sentence they typed because they wanted it to stop. 196 other people then upvoted entries on this page because the same thing happens to them.
Every pain is scored on three things: how often it happens (frequency), how badly it interrupts a normal day (urgency), and whether the person would pay money to make it go away (willingness to pay). The combination of those three is what we call the urgency score, and it's what this page is sorted by. A pain that happens daily, ruins your morning, and is worth $20/month to fix sits at the top. A one-off rant about a single bad experience sits at the bottom.
Reading a country hub is different from reading the world map. The map tells you where pain exists; this page tells you what the pain is. For United States specifically, you'll see patterns that don't show up at the global level β local infrastructure that everyone complains about, services that work fine elsewhere but break here, recurring frustrations with institutions, transport, billing, or housing that are specific to the place. Founders building for United States should read top-to-bottom: the first ten entries are usually where there's actually a market.
How we keep it real: every submission gets automatically categorized, scored for text quality (low-effort spam gets filtered), and re-ranked daily as votes come in. Pains flagged by three or more people are removed. We do not generate any of this with AI, we don't seed the list, and we don't pay people to submit. The signal is whatever people in United States actually care enough to type.
If you want to dig deeper, jump to the topic hubs at the bottom of this page β they slice across all countries by theme (parking, rent, dating apps, customer support, etc.), which is useful if you're researching a specific problem rather than a specific place.
π₯ Top 12 pains in United States
Claude the Token Eater
What I was trying to do: Coding my apps but it's really hard What went wrong: Claude eat all my tokens and i dont like Worst part: after 1 min im at 60% tokens :'(
How to wear your hat
What I was trying to do: Wear my MAGA hat in public and enjoy my afternoon What went wrong: Some blue hair septic ring wearing he/she started yapping her gums about Palestine this, SSRI that.... Worst part: The antagonist smelled like it hadn't showered in multiple months.
how to sell ebook
What I was trying to do: see ebook online What went wrong: not selling Worst part: dont know where to sell, how to sell
Healthy food finder
What I was trying to do: I don't know whats the healthiest options when grocery shopping. What went wrong: I just want to be healthy but I waste so much time trying to navigate thru foods Worst part: Gluten free? Pasture raised? fat free? Sugar free? ultra processed? Theres too many options to choose from in the grocery store. I get lost.
First 100 users bottlenecks
What I was trying to do: First 100 Users Bottleneck - Why and How What went wrong: Why is it hard to find the first 100 users for a B2B product? Worst part: First advice is always check your circle, they lie, they say the product is interesting, but nobody wants to commit.
Free AI Agents Suck
What I was trying to do: I was trying to set up a free AI agentic workflow What went wrong: The quotas were too small or the models were bad Worst part: After ~3 hours, I was fed up and tired of trying what felt like the same thing
Frustration β Consumption
What I was trying to do: Explain why a catalog of human frustrations doesn't make for good business ideas. What went wrong: Inexperienced founders hear "solve a problem" and start building. They don't see the value of good customer discovery interviews and well designed validation experiments. Worst part: Founders building things with AI but don't understand the fundamental limitations of the tools, nor the nature of the problems they're trying to solve
People who are clearly coping about how good AI is and how
People who are clearly coping about how good AI is and how far it has came. For example, my coworker. βI dont trust AI for anything really, its so stupid and does not get anything rightβ. Itβs like they are stuck in 2022 gpt 3.5, or they are just coping really hard and ignoring reality.
AI is everywhere
What I was trying to do: Living without AI What went wrong: AI is everywhere Worst part: It's everywhere
Spectrum Internet is a B
What I was trying to do: Use the internet What went wrong: Internet no work Worst part: Socializing with people
Don't take a test with a catheter on
What I was trying to do: Take an extremely important test directly after being in the hospital for a week What went wrong: Couldn't study enough because I was in the hospital for a week and had a catheter on during the test Worst part: Had to empty the catheter during the test in a public bathroom
Echo Chamber
internet algorithms creating echo chambers and people are more isolated than ever, despite having advance communication devices in their hands at all times
More from United States
Job applications are a black hole
You spend hours tailoring a resume, hit submit, and never hear anything back. Ever. Companies should be required to respond within 14 days.
I graduated, want to move out.
I graduated, want to move out. My parents wont let me. But no one can stop me because I have already made the decision. It's just that I want to make it in a way that's convincing and wont break the family.
Startup idea finder
What I was trying to do: Figuring out what product to build What went wrong: Every guru gives me different advice, and I don't know what my tech startup should be, and i want to launch something but I don't have an idea, and I think with ai i can figure it out. Worst part: I don't know how to figure out whether a problem is big enough, urgent enough, or important enough to warrant building a business around the solution.
University tuition is criminal
Six figures of debt for a piece of paper. Half the lectures are on YouTube for free. The system is broken.
Knowing where to start on a SaaS.
Knowing where to start on a SaaS. It is overwhelming and hard to really jump in. What AI tools to use. How to find a niche problem that is painful.
Frequently asked
- What are people in United States most frustrated about?
- Anything from local government and housing to dating apps and parking. The top of this list is sorted by urgency, so you'll see the most-felt problems first.
- Are these pain points only from people living in United States?
- Yes. Each submission tags a country, and this page only shows entries tagged United States. Diaspora and travelers may also contribute when relevant.
- Can I add a problem from United States?
- Yes β anyone can submit. It takes about 30 seconds, no signup required, and the country is auto-detected (you can override).
- How many United States pains have been submitted?
- 17 so far. New entries appear daily.
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